My sister has told me she is leaving her husband.  I am not against it, she married too early had children too early.  At least for my taste...
She asks for help moving her things to a new apartment, then lets me know he does not know she's leaving yet. Which is not a bad thing. It might be easier, safer.  She says she might not get the apartment, so she can't tell him yet, but she has told everyone she knows, except him.  The duplicity of my sister stuns me.  It is hard to know that she plays the same games as other women I have reviled and hated.  But I will go help her move nonetheless.. I have no children myself but how will she deal with their 2 children. Is she being petty and spiteful...? I feel mean to think so, but her husband seems so harmless.  And if I'm wrong about that I will beg for her forgiveness forever after I twist his head off.